I flew back to New York tonight, and a woman sitting in front of me chewed out three different flight attendants because there wasn’t room for her carryon suitcase. All of the overhead storage was filled and she still hadn’t stowed her bag.
The purser finally came over and swiftly and efficiently told the passenger that her choices were to check the bag or to leave the plane. No rudeness, no condescension, no attitude – simply cool and effective delivery.
Of course, the passenger checked the bag.
I wondered if she was going to act out for the rest of the flight, yet I didn’t hear a peep from her the entire way across the country. What happened?
Well, the purser really did her job well. Even though the passenger had been seriously rude to the other flight attendants, the purser didn’t let that affect how she communicated. She delivered her message with emotional intelligence. She was respectful to the passenger, yet crystal clear that she would not tolerate any nonsense.
Communicating with emotional intelligence makes life easier for everyone in the workplace. If you’d like to see how you score, email me and I’ll send you a link to take a complimentary assessment to measure your emotional intelligence (through April 30th).